friends...

friends come and go..don't they? this suddenly came to my mind a few days back. reminds me of a time not a few years ago that i casually said to a colleague that A is B's friend. she responded, yes, mmg dia org kawan, tapi bukan sahabat. ?? ada difference? significant tak? tested? we go through school, high school, college, and post college (to some) and post post college (to lesser some), not forgetting work environment and social environments. how many of us have this priviledge of having sahabat? we do have friends, here and there. oh yes, i kenal org ni, i kenal org tu. but question is how many of us get stuff like you were not like this when you were 16 (or better 7)! i get ditched a lot when it comes to this, or maybe i ditched others and for this i apologize. sahabat..yang paling sedih is when we think org tu sahabat, but when changes occur, org tu terus reduced to non-kawan even. sedih. and for this is do thank cms, for having been with me all these years, although bergaduh byk kali, have differences in opinions and stuff, but she (i think) has confidence, the extent to which i pun tak sampai! and for this also i want to cherish whatever friendship that i have with the hope that it'll somehow blossom into sahabat...! wallahua'lam!

p.s. something i read "Women's lives, even more than men's, are complex" (Burke, 2006)..fikir-fikirkan...